I usualy play the mod 'Age of Calradia Enhanced' because it adds lots of cool stuff without changing to much the core game. Try it out and give a reply to me if happens the same thing with uĬlick to expand.I only play female (except one time for a steam achievment). I don't know if it's a bug that occurred with me but when I talked with King Graveth about becoming his vassal he said the usual, that he wouldn't accept my vassalage cuz I'm a woman and yadayada, then I for curiosity decided to press the option that says that even if he wouldn't give me any fiefs I would still want to become his vassal, which made him accept, and after some short time he offered to me a village ( Mechin ) which I obviously accepted, since then he started to give me more and more fiefs ( I've received Shariz, Almerra Castle, Knudarr Castle, Emirin and Mechin until now ) and he even offered me the position as Marshal of our kingdom, which I refused ( cuz being a Marshal's not cool ).ītw I don't remember which where my stats when all that happened, but I remember I had quite a high renown, honor and charisma ( don't know exactly if charisma and honor have any effect on it anyway ) and also had a high relationship with King Graveth and his vassals. I've been seeing some people saying that you can't become a vassal of a kingdom ( not like male characters can at least ), but yes you can.